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It’s my fucking life and you know what, nobody invited you…

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While we’re making out or kissing or at some stage in intercourse my boyfriend will once in a while hit me (slap me) in the face. Every now and then it could be clearly difficult.

That is something we’ve got talked about and is consensual and is a turn on for each of us, although he turned into the only who first initiated it. For him, he is now not completely positive why he likes it a lot; he says that he likes it because of my reactions and as it turns me on, and because he receives pissed off after I tease him in the course of sex, although he clarified it wasn’t/is not from anger, greater like sexual frustration.

I am positive different humans have comparable kinks, however may want to you help me apprehend why i really like it so much? I sense nearly embarrassed/ashamed to love this because he also likes calling me a slut (his main “kink” is eye-catching me – he receives became on understanding that i am grew to become on and into it) and occasionally he’ll maintain my neck and choke me. again we’ve pointed out this, and have very clear alerts in order that I do not get hurt. If I say no or prevent he’ll achieve this without delay. As an aside, he is additionally instructed me that he knows i am not a slut, however that it just turns him on.

I like doing what we’re doing, however do not understand it. apart from this stuff – or even with them, due to the fact notwithstanding their obvious violence they’re completed in smooth/loving/fond manner – we are a completely loving, ordinary couple.

Should a person with a similar fetish/kink/enjoy relate why they prefer it a lot? I want to return to terms with something that as an inherently feminist, anti-violence lady I experience as if I ought to no longer like as a good deal. I’d never welcome this remedy outside of a sexual putting with someone I relied on absolutely.

Also if you may offer insight as to why he might like doing this to me that would be appreciated.

We’re both bisexual and at college in our late teens, nearly 20. I have never been with someone before him, he has had both ex boy- and girlfriends and is greater experienced, even though he says he is never hit or choked every person before.

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